Falling in Love: Allowed in Islam?

We  cannot say love is 'halal' or 'haram' because it is a feeling. Maybe it is not under control. We can judge what is under control. But people who fall in love are in many episodes away from the cleansed and pure atmosphere.

Marriages that are usually good and lasting marriages are those that start at the least affection. That affection grows after marriage and maybe it will grow until the couples continue their companionship at the Jannah.

If we have any affection towards a person, we should ask ourself: Why do we like that person? If we have good Islamic, reasonable justification, then we need not to tell that person of what we feel. However, we can make a serious plan to make him/her ask for your hand. If you want to know the meaning of fitna, a great part of it is what people nowadays call love or romance.

Islam does not allow any illicit relationship between a man and a woman. Allah has established marriage as the legitimate means for satisfying sexual desire, and through marriage a man and woman form a family based on the laws of Allah, and their children are legitimate. In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. We are either married or we are not. To have a boyfriend or girlfriend, no matter the level of interaction and involvement, is completely 'haram'!

A person may hear that a woman is of good character and virtuous and knowledgeable, so he may want to marry her. Or a woman may hear that a man is of good character and virtuous and knowledgeable and religiously committed, so she may want to marry him. But contact between the two who admire one another in ways that are not Islamically acceptable is the problem, which leads to disastrous consequences. In this case it is not permissible for the man to get in touch with the woman or for the woman to get in touch with the man, and say that he wants to marry her. Rather he should tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as ‘Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) did when he offered his daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakar and ‘Uthman (may Allah be pleased with them both). But if the woman contacts the man directly or if the man contacts woman directly, this is may leads to fitnah (temptation).

Oh! Before I end up my post, here is one of the permissible ways to get the one whom we love:

Contact the 'wali' or the guardian of the person whom we desire to marry. 

Gulp and Gasp synopsis

At a glance:

This drama is about a greedy villain Lord Septic whose quest to conquer more wealth is assisted by his brainless side-kick Crouch whose main duty includes grovelling.They meet a maiden named Rose selling flowers and Crouch is asked to force the girl off the platform of the railway station. A handsome and brave hero named Percy rescues Rose the damsel in distress and in doing stumble upon his fortune that has been left for him by his late mother Lady Gatsby at the very same station.

Love Is ...

Love is the greatest feeling,
Love is like a play,
Love is what I feel for you,
Each and every day,
Love is like a smile,
Love is like a song,
Love is a great emotion,
That keeps us going strong,
I love you with my heart,
My body and my soul,
I love the way I keep loving,
Like a love I can't control,
So remember when your eyes meet mine,
I love you with all my heart,
And I have poured my entire soul into you,
Right from the very start.

Note: Do not hold hands or even touch a bit (with the opposite gender) before marriage.

I am not a girl okay!!!

What?

Need to act as Rose, the female character in the drama Gulp and Gasp.

Well, it is not surprising at all that I’d been chosen to play as a young lady for the drama.

Most of the pupils in the school thought that I am a metroman and effeminate.

Actually, if they know me well, they will say that I am a bad boy and ‘kerek’.à Try ask Izzudin Hilmi's opinion about me.

          Well, anyway, I need to please with the decision that had been made by my classmates. Please give guidance to me ‘cause I’m still new in acting field.

For your information, gay had been categorized into two:

1. Top

This type of man usually have a mascular body and play  as men in the gay world.

2. Bottom

This type of man will play and act as girl in the activity (often called ‘mak nyah ’ ). This type of man usually have soft skin, dressed like a girl and using lipstick.

P/S: Please don’t  think that I’m a gay because I act as a young lady and please don't make any other nickname for me.

Not a KB anymore.

Hafizuddin, our ex-KB ('Ketua' Batch) had move to Kolej Islam Sultan Alam Shah (KISAS). So, we (form 4 students) do not have leader for about a month.

Then, one beautiful morning, our school general head student (Ketua Umum), Faiz Azrai (also known as Gek) called all the MPP (Majlis Perwakilan Pelajar) - which includes the MT (Majlis Tertinggi), leaders of  PRS , batch form, Briged Bestari and many more -  to see him and discuss about the course of Miss Rohani retirement day. Then, because nobody take concerned about it, so I went to see him as a representative of my form 4 batch. (Actually, there are a event before that day where I was being appointed as a new leader but I don't remember about it very well) .

So, begin from that day, I am the head of form 4 batch.

But, it does not last long until one day, that is today.

Hafizi, MY assistant leader, want to discuss about having a new leader with everyone's votes - eventhough many of us had returned home. It is not disheartening to me for them to select a more caliber leader than me and that guy is Azwar Abdullah. The assistant leader is still the same guy start from us form 1 until form 4, that is Hafizi Ruslan, my ex-assistant.

What is disheartening is that there are still a few said to me, "Don't be sad".

Hey, do you think I really want that position? You don't even know how hard to be a leader is. While all of you are sleepimg, I need to woke up to settle some of the school's event. While all of you reading do revision for the examination, I still need to think on what performance should we (form 4) done on the Teacher's Day - So don't ask me why I didn't get high marks for this Mid Year Test Examination. But, when we ready to do our performance, the time envy and jealous with us, so our performance had to be cancelled. Arrrgh....

Being a leader can be so tense if you observed carefully – That’s why I look tense very often lately.

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Fuhhhhhhhh... Now, I feel like my shoulder feel more lighter because all of the responsibilities have been taken by another person that is better than me. I also can calm and relaxed a bit now . 

Anyways, I'm happy that I can serve for my batch form eventhought it is only in a short time. Please don't said anything about my leadership if you don't ever heve the experience as a leader.

Study! Steady! Ready!

Exam?

Exam = Study

Many students often think to study when the examination draws near.

Why not study or revise all the subjects every day or at least one week before the exam?

Actually, when we study at last minute, we will get tense very easily.

So, quit dreaming and prepare yourself well in order to face the examination.

Be happy, don’t be moody.

Oral! Oral! Ok!

One day before the oral test begin.
What? Oral? Oh no! I didn’t prepared well to face it. 
What should I do? What should I do?

The night after the first day for oral.
What a relieved that my name was not being called by teacher. I think I’m lucky because my name begin with the alphabet M, before L and after O.

One day after one week the oral test began.
What a disaster that my name is still not being called by the teacher eventhough it is already one week. Its worsen when it is deferred until the Mid Year Test done.

Can I face it? Can I assume it? Can I continue? Only Allah knows.
Oh whatever? I actually didn’t very care about it as long as I can remember the text well.